50 Ways to Encourage Anyone Anywhere at Any Time

People need encouragement, but sometimes we over-think things. Encouraging people does not have to take a ton of time or a lot of money. Instead, here are 50 ways you can encourage nearly anyone at any time. Enjoy the list, then add your own suggestions in the comments.

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These suggestions are sure to bring a smile to anyone’s face!

1. Make a phone call out of the blue.

2. Smile

3. Give a sincere compliment (no flattery allowed!)

4. Make a small donation to their favorite charity, school, etc.

5. Praise their children/grandchildren/parents

6. Invite them over for dinner

7. Send a small floral arrangement…just because

8. Find a chore that needs to be done and just do it

9. Leave a $20 on the door with a note reading, “Supper’s on us tonight”

10. Post an encouraging Bible verse or quote on their Facebook wall

11. Tell a clean joke

12. Listen

13. Visit a loved one of theirs who is in the hospital or a local assisted living home

14. Make a “double” recipe tonight and take the extra to them tomorrow

15. Send a card on the anniversary of them losing a loved one

16. Pray for them

17. Offer a night of free baby-sitting/dog-sitting/house-sitting

18. Have your children make a small “What I Love about …” project and give it to them

19. Send a private tweet or Facebook message asking for a prayer request

20. Mail a hand-written note (remember those?)

21. Give a gift subscription to a favorite magazine for 1 year

22. Gift a Kindle book [may I suggest this one?] or Amazon gift card

23. Send a small ($5) e-card to a coffee house or restaurant with good desserts

24. Walk a fresh loaf of bread or batch of brownies down to their house

25. Have an old-fashioned talk on the front porch

26. Create a blog post or Facebook note honoring them

27. Remember their birthday

28. Hug

29. Have a small gift (balloons, for example) delivered to their workplace

30. Ask them to stay for a nightly family devotional

31. Pick a random day and just ask, “What can I do to help you today?”

32. Volunteer for a charity or organization they love

33. Give them a note from your child with their ball schedule (or recital, play, etc. schedule) saying, “I’d love for you to come!”

34. Invite them to church. Even if they don’t come, people appreciate that you care enough to invite

35. Leave an anonymous gift (like a potted plant) on the porch

36. Ask about their kids/grandkids and be ready to listen

37. Go out to eat with them

38. Call them by name

39. Remember your “please’s,” “thank you’s,” sir’s,” and “ma’am’s.”

40. Treat their children with honor

41. Attend the funeral when they lose a loved one

42. If it is too far away, send a gift of some kind to let them know you are there in spirit

43. Help coordinate some part of their life when a tragedy happens (travel plans, meals, or child care are just some suggestions)

44. Text regularly, just to say hello

45. Encourage them in their work. Treat it as valuable and important

46. “Just happen” to buy an extra ticket to the ball game or concert and invite them

47. Take care of their house when they are gone on vacation

48. Go the extra mile in any service you might do for them

49. Be joyful and peaceful around them

50. Did I mention, pray for them?

QUESTION: What else would you add? What almost universally brings encouragement to others?

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Page Turners Episode 006 : The Treasure Chest of Grace

Welcome to “Page Turners,” where we interview the authors of some of our favorite books. On this episode, we are pleased to be joined by Wes McAdams, the author of The Treasure Chest of Grace.

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The Interview

Enjoy the interview with brother McAdams, then we’ll tell you how you can get a copy of this great book.


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Get Your Copy

The Treasure Chest of Grace is available in both paperback and Kindle formats.

The paperback version can be found here for $9.25.

The Kindle version can be found here for just $2.99.

We are thankful to Wes for taking the time to be with us, and we hope you’ll pick up a copy of his good book and let it help you grow in your faith.

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Other Resources

Wes’s blog: Radically Christian.

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The Most Difficult Part of the Homosexuality Debate

It is clear that homosexuality is one of the defining issues of our time. Those who are watching Western culture will one day write about this era and about the growing acceptance of this lifestyle. And, depending on what the United State Supreme Court does in a few weeks, they might write about nationally-allowed homosexual marriage. Of course, homosexuality is not the only issue Christians face, but this issue so dominates our national discussion that we must consider it very often.

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But there is at least one aspect of all this talk that is common with any sin, especially sins that are running rampant through society. Off and on, that issue is gambling, especially when a state or local government is considering the issue. Back in the 1970s and 1980s, it was the issue of drunk driving, and the obviously related issue of alcohol consumption. Of course, slavery was that issue about 150 years ago. During the 1940s, it was pacifism. You get the idea. In our time, the two most common issues are homosexuality and abortion, but there are many other issues we face daily, as well.

Those who are for homosexuality being normalized and accepted seemed to have learned from the past, however, and they are using some of that knowledge to their advantage. My challenge to Christians today is to learn from these past “fights,” too.

What have the people who are for accepting homosexuality learned? They had learned the most difficult part of the debate.

Oh, it’s not that cultural elites are calling for the normalization and acceptance of any type of sin. We see that constantly.

It’s not being called names like “bigot” or “homophobic.”

It’s not going hearing about athletes, politicians, musicians, and actors “come out” and be celebrated.

So what is it?

It’s wearing people down, so we must not only deal with those fighting for the normalization of sin, but then also dealing with people who just don’t care any longer. It is apathy.

You see, this constant barrage from those pushing the homosexual agenda is their strategy. It is not to try to prove the “rightness” of their issue. It is not to look at legal precedent or history (because those work against their cause!).

Have you noticed that the debate constantly changes? First it is “that’s just who I am.” Then it is “let’s compare this to civil rights.” Then it is “love is all that matters.” Then it is “look at this person. He/she is gay, and they are a good role model.” Then it is “you must hate marriage if you don’t want loving people to marry.”

[Side note: for awhile, it was "my DNA made me this way," but we don't hear that any longer, since the Human Genome Project disproved it.]

The “reason” or the “angle” is constantly changing. Why? Because they know that, if they can throw enough arguments out, say them over and over, and repeat them in the public forum, many people will just get tired of debating.

And those who have given up are the hardest ones to deal with. They may think–no, they may know–that homosexuality is sinful, but they are just tired of debating it. They are tired of swimming against the tide of cultural change. They are tired of seeing those who “come out” celebrated while they are vilified. They are tired of the government siding more and more with this sin.

So, they give up.

Friend, if that describes you, I implore you: don’t give up!

Continue to stand, lovingly yet boldly, for God’s Word on every issue, including this one. Even though it may seem like “we” are losing, we must remember that God has never given us the right to quit just because we are tired of fighting. We must press forward with truth. We must continue to love the sinner while hating the sin. We must continue to preach what the Bible says on this issue.

And, yes, if it comes to it, we must continue to be persecuted for our beliefs.

But the one thing we absolutely cannot do is give up.

QUESTION: What are some of the other “arguments” that are used to wear down opposition to homosexuality?

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Saturday Night Quote…from [Billy] Sunday…for Preachers

This one is for preachers. What a strong reminder!

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C.S. Lewis on How to Look at Life

Today, I simply want to share a great quote with you. It is one you have probably seen before, but I hope you find it helpful. In my mind, this quote from C.S. Lewis expresses very well how I should look at the world.

This quote is the first “pin” on my new “Quotes of Faith and Life” board on Pinterest. To follow that board, click here. If you want to follow Leah on Pinterest (which is a really good idea…she pins a lot of great stuff), click here.

QUESTION: Are you looking at the world through the eyes of Christian faith?

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