6 Ways to Keep Facebook from Harming Your Marriage

As we wrote about recently, I have a love/hate relationship with Facebook. I’m glad I restarted my account, as it is much easier to manage. I have noticed, though, a massive drop-off in the amount of traffic to our blog since the restart, but that’s okay.

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Facebook is a great tool, but far too many people (mis)use it in ways that are harming their homes. It has been reported recently that fully 33% of all divorces mention Facebook somewhere in the divorce filings.

Certainly, there are ways to enjoy the good uses of Facebook without it leading to divorce, but it can be very easy to be trapped in a digital, social, interactive world and much closer to cheating on your spouse than you ever dreamed you would be. If nothing else, it is easy to find yourself drawn to Facebook friends in a way that is drawing your attention away from your spouse, even if only subconsciously.

How can we enjoy Facebook without it leading to harm to our marriages? Here are 6 tips.

1. Never Hide Your Activity from Your Spouse. If you won’t scroll through your timeline or even your private Facebook messages with your spouse nearby, you are doing something you shouldn’t be. Your husband or wife should be able to look at your Facebook page at any point in time…no questions asked, and you should be willing to share.

2. Share Your Password. Why would you be embarrassed if your spouse logged in as you just for a moment, just to see what you have been up to? (By the way, this is important for parents, too.) Sharing passwords should be true of all accounts and devices, but especially when it is connected with something as “social” as Facebook.

3. Unfriend Anyone Your Spouse Isn’t Comfortable With. If you have an “old flame” as a friend in Facebook, that’s not necessarily wrong. But if your spouse is not comfortable with that person, you should unfriend that person…immediately. Doing so shows that the emotions and desires of your spouse are worth more to you than peering into the life of someone else.

4. Don’t “Like” Tempting Things. How many men “like” the pages of celebrities not because their work is good, but because they like seeing pictures of her? How many women “like” nice looking movie stars, even though they know that their husband will never look like that? By clicking that “like” button, you are adding things that will pull your eyes, heart, and mind away from your spouse on a regular basis.

5. Praise Your Spouse on Facebook. Leah isn’t on Facebook, and if she ever does sign up, you will probably see pigs with wings flying overhead. That said, I try to post things about her from time to time that build her up. This is a public forum where we can build up our marriage and the one to whom we are married. Far too many, though, run down their spouse. Praise him. Praise her. And do so often.

6. Turn Off Facebook. It’s a great tool, but there is also an addictive nature to it. Set parameters for how much time you will spend scrolling through your news feed or checking messages. When that time is done, turn it off and actually spend face-to-face time with your spouse. Or, if you check Facebook on your lunch break, take the time to call or text your spouse or plan something for a date.

No one starts out on Facebook thinking, “I’m going to see if I can ruin my marriage with this website.” Sadly, though, by not using Facebook in a responsible way, it is easy to chip away at the foundation of your marriage. Before you know it, “Facebook” may be used in some papers at the courthouse that you never thought you’d have to sign.

Treat your spouse and your marriage with honor in every space…even cyberspace.

QUESTION: What are some ways you protect your marriage on Facebook? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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Manoah & Being an Accommodating Parent

From the time our kids are very small, they are taught the life of Samson. He is depicted as the strongman of the Bible, and his feats of strength are truly remarkable.

Even before he was born, Samson was chosen by God for a special purpose. He was to be a Nazirite from birth, which was unheard of, and he was not just to have a month-long Nazirite vow, but he was to live under the stipulations of the Nazirite.

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We know Samson’s ultimate downfall was his propensity toward ungodly women. As a man, he alone is guilty for his unwise decisions in that area.

But I wonder if his father, Manoah, didn’t play at least a part in Samson’s downward spiral, and in so doing, provide a strong warning to parents today.

Judges 14 begins:

Samson went down to Timnah, and at Timnah he saw one of the daughters of the Philistines. then he came up and told his father and mother, “I saw one of the daughters of the Philistines at Timnah. Now get her for me as my wife.” But his father and mother said to him, “Is there not a woman among the daughters of  your relatives, or among all our people, that you must go and take a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?” But Samson said to his father, “Get her for me, for she is right in my eyes.” (Judges 14:1-3)

We might fault Manoah at this point for not being strong in his rebuke of Samson, but he is speaking truth into the life of his son so far.

We do not know what caused Manoah to cave in, but Samson eventually marries this foreign, pagan woman. Verse 9 tells us that, while they were traveling to Timnah, Samson’s father and mother were with him. Considering the culture of the time, they had to agree to his wedding.

Further, verse 10 tells us that Manoah was present during the wedding feast. “[Samson's] father went down to the woman, and Samson prepared a feast there, for so the young men used to do.” It would be quite some time, but this flaw in Samson would eventually lead him to the duplicitous arms of Delilah, who proved to be his downfall.

Manoah was supposed to be the leader of this household. He had spoken to the angel of the Lord about the birth of this special boy, and knew that God would use Samson. Yet, when Samson wanted something, it seems that he got it.

Maybe it was because Samson was so special. Sometimes, we can struggle to say “no” to a child who shows a real propensity for some area of life. If he can throw a football 60 yards, how can we possibly keep him off the practice field for the Gospel Meeting? If she can be valedictorian with just a little more study time, why does she “have to” go to the youth retreat?

Manoah serves as a powerful warning to parents, though. Did you notice that it went beyond just avoiding saying “no?” It went beyond simply being an accommodating parent.

By the time of the wedding feast, Manoah is right there. By his presence at the feast, he is showing his support of something he knows isn’t right.

When it comes to family, it can get very difficult to avoid doing that.

“I used to think that homosexuality was wrong, but my son is happier in that lifestyle.”

“Matthew 19:9 has a whole different meaning to me now, because my daughter is truly happy with her new husband.”

“We don’t use instruments where I worship, but my son is just using his talents across town to express himself in their worship.”

Maybe it shouldn’t be so remarkable, but I am amazed at how often I have heard Christians say such things, or read their thoughts online or in notes. The pull of the child overtakes the power of the Gospel. What started as a small thing where we “gave in” becomes us approving of sinful actions, just because it is our child.

Let’s learn the lesson of Manoah, and learn to say “no” right from the start.

QUESTION: What are some ways to avoid Manoah’s “accommodating parent” mistake? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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NOTE: The idea for this post came from the book Bad Dads of the Bible, chapter 7.

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Where the Grass Doesn’t Grow : Why I Don’t Mind One Part of Our Yard Being Trampled

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We are not too particular about our yard. I’ve never seeded my lawn, and I always mow in the same pattern, which I know isn’t perfect for the grass. That said, we do try to keep our yard trimmed and we do care if it is presentable.

Well, most of it, that is.

You see, there is a small area of our yard where I’m not sure we will ever have grass. The space is only about 5 or 6 feet wide, but it contains two areas of nothing but compacted dirt. Looking across our back yard, it stands out like a sore thumb. Brown patches with no growth right in the middle of a green lawn.

But I don’t mind one bit.

Why? Because it’s where the feet of our children stomp, scrape, and trample when they are on the swing set. Countless mental images are burned into my mind where those two brown patches are, and those images are worth more to me than a perfect and lush lawn.

You may not care about your lawn very much (or even less than we do), but maybe for you it’s a favorite TV show, sporting event, flower bed, veggie garden, or something else. The kids can just ruin it for you, but you don’t mind. It’s okay to be interrupted during the game, isn’t it? That prize tomato may not grow back, but is it that important?

I don’t for a minute believe that kids should just have free reign and be able to destroy things with no consequences. But part of parenting is realizing that some things in our lives are not going to be as “perfect” or “in place” as we might like, because they just aren’t as important as our precious children.

Yes, they will get in the way at times, and our nerves are often frazzled. But that’s part of parenting.

One of these days, grass will grow in those brown spots. We will look out across that back yard and see nice, lush, green grass from the back of the house all the way to the planting beds and fence across the way. It will be beautiful.

But it won’t be the same.

God,

Thank you for the little spaces of compacted dirt where we see our children play. Help us to love them in spite of the times they cause something to not be as beautiful or nice as it could be, because they are far more valuable and beautiful.

In Jesus name,

Amen

QUESTION: What is something your children interrupt or “hurt,” but that you wouldn’t trade for anything?

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Friday’s Family Friendly Finds {April 11, 2014 edition}

So, we haven’t posted since last week’s “finds.” We were involved in a Gospel Meeting in Jasper, Alabama with the 6th Avenue Church of Christ. We had a tremendous time there, and were so encouraged by those good folks. During the week, we were blessed to see 2 precious young people put Christ on in baptism, and there were 7 others who responded during the week seeking prayers of forgiveness and/or encouragement. Being around when people respond like that just never gets old!

On to this week’s finds.

Family Friendly Finds

This Week’s Finds

Stop, Look, and Listen: The Teachings of a Tenacious Toddler [for the family]

15 Ways to Teach Kids How to Work Hard [We are THAT Family]

The Benefits of Growing Your Own Fruits and Vegetables [Of the Hearth]

Mom, Dad, Leave Me Alone! [Spiritual Java]

Strong Willed Children are a Blessing [On Parenting]

HEY MARRIED PEOPLE: Quit Checking Out People You’re Not Married To! [Life in the Light]

Our Week in Review

Since we didn’t post this week, it was interesting to see what posts were viewed the most during the past 7 days. (The original publication dates are in parentheses.)

#5: Gwyneth Paltrow, Chris Martin, and “Conscious Uncoupling” (April 1, 2014)

#4: Free Resources: Sermon Outlines [NOTE: This is not technically a "post," but it regularly is in our top "hits" for the week, so we decided to include it this time, on a week when we didn't write new posts.]

#3: Politically Correct Fairy Tales (April 2, 2014)

#2: Why I Restarted on Facebook (April 3, 2014)

#1: 10 Budget Basics for Families (March 12, 2014)

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We are thankful for those of you who have helped us restart on Facebook. If you have not yet “liked” our blog on Facebook, you can do that in the box below, or click here to like us on our Facebook page. If you have liked us, please take a moment to tell someone else about our site, so they can like us, too. Thanks!

What Did We Miss?

What family links, tweets, or videos did we miss this week? Contact us with links you’d like us to consider for future Friday’s Family Friendly Finds! You can also contact us if you are interested in writing a guest post for our site. We look forward to hearing from you!

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Friday’s Family Friendly Finds {April 4, 2014 edition}

Before getting to this week’s finds, let me share with you that I’m not sure if we will have very many–if any–posts next week. I will be holding a Gospel Meeting during the week and I’m not sure if my schedule and access to the Internet will allow me to post. I may get in one or two posts, but we’ll just have to see.

The Gospel Meeting, by the way, will be at the 6th Avenue church of Christ in Jasper, Alabama. If you’re in the area, I’ll be preaching at 9AM, 10AM, and 7PM on Sunday, then at 7PM on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday evenings. If you’re in the area, we’d love to see you there!

With that out of the way, let’s get on to this week’s finds for you to enjoy over the weekend!

Family Friendly Finds

This Week’s Finds

10 Marriage Killers [Life in the Light]

Perhaps the Most Important Thing We Must Teach Our Children [Life and Favor]

Fun and Frugal Double Date Ideas [Of the Hearth]

Teaching Responsibility [On Parenting]

When a Friend’s Marriage Falters [for the family]

26 Rainy Day Activities for Kids [My Kids' Adventures]

Our Week in Review

These posts were not necessarily written in the last week, but were the 5 most-viewed posts during that time. (Original publication date in parenthesis)

#5:10 Budget Basics for Families (March 12, 2014)

#4: Politically Correct Fairy Tales (April 2, 2014)

#3: Dealing with Anorexia : Thoughts from One Who Prays (March 31, 2014)

#2: Why I Restarted Facebook (April 3, 2014)

#1: Gwyneth Paltrow, Chris Martin, and “Conscious Uncoupling” (April 1, 2014)

What Did We Miss?

What family links, tweets, or videos did we miss this week? Contact us with links you’d like us to consider for future Friday’s Family Friendly Finds! You can also contact us if you are interested in writing a guest post for our site. We look forward to hearing from you!

One More Thing

Since we restarted Facebook this week, we also restarted our blog’s Facebook page, so our “like” count went back to zero. (It was over 500 when we reset Facebook.) If you enjoy what we do here, please “like” our blog. You can do that in the box below (or by clicking here to access Facebook).

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Why I Restarted on Facebook

I have been thinking about Facebook a lot lately, and I took a very odd series of steps over the past few days. To make a long story short, I have completely started over on Facebook.

If you are still interested, let me give you the longer story.

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I have a very strong love/hate relationship with Facebook. It is a great way to keep up with folks, and it drives the most traffic to our blog–by far–of any site.

However, I had grown weary of how Facebook has spiraled on me. I’m sure it will again, but I have been on the site since 2007 and it had gotten to be a fire hose of information that I just could not keep up with.

So,I tried to think of solutions.

First, I thought about deleting Facebook completely. I’m sure I could do that, but I really do use it for legitimate purposes that I find important. From connecting with family and friends to running a few groups, it really is a great tool.

Then, I considered “becoming a page” on Facebook. In fact, I went through with it, and started a page only account. This really seemed like the perfect solution to gain simplicity in using Facebook. However, if you only have an account as a “page,” you cannot be a part of, or run, any Facebook groups. All you can do is work with pages that you either create or administer. Since I run a few groups, this was not an option.

However, once I had become a “page,” there was no going back. You can go from a personal profile to a page on Facebook, but you can’t go back. I considered sticking with the page, but just couldn’t do it.

Then, it hit me: why not just start over. This way, I can get a fresh start with Facebook completely. Sure, I don’t have all the information on my site yet, but I can get a clean start and rebuild it however I want. It will take awhile to build the site back up, but that’s okay. While that’s going on, I can enjoy actually keeping up with people again, instead of getting the completely overwhelming amount of information that was coming at me before.

What This Means

Here’s the bottom line. I am only going to add friends on Facebook who are people I actually know and interact with. Obviously, people from the groups I run will be added, as will many preaching friends, and others I keep touch with from different times in life (college, 9th Avenue, etc.).

However, I am not going to add everyone back. I had so many “friends” who were people I had never even met or communicated with. There’s nothing wrong with using Facebook this way, but it was taking way from me actually enjoying the site for what I want to use it for.

Now, won’t this hurt the traffic to our blog? Absolutely it will (in the short-term, anyway). Facebook provides the most traffic to our site by far, but that was not the original reason we used Facebook, so I don’t mind taking this short-term hit. We have restarted our blog page on Facebook, and would like you to “like” it, and that will help us, but we are going to focus our efforts on Facebook on our friends and family.

If you enjoy our blog, you can “like” our page here:

So, we start over. I’m actually glad this happened, in a way, because it will help me re-learn how to use Facebook more effectively.

QUESTION: So, what are your thoughts? Have you ever thought about deleting or starting over on Facebook? Share your reactions in the comments!

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Politically Correct Fairy Tales

We love reading to our children. There are so many reasons this is true. One reason, though, is that we can choose to instill so many positive values in them through our selection of stories and literature. While a lot of books and stories are basically just “fun,” we try to expose them to positive, encouraging, and moral stories that we hope will build within them a desire to be the best they can be.

And that’s why I’m thankful that many of the tales were written before the era of political correctness.

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In our “everyone is equal” and “no one loses” world, I can only imagine how certain fairy tales would be told. While the following are meant to be satirical, it is sad how many people would think these updates are more appropriate than the originals.

Enjoy this satirical list, and add your own “updates” in the comments!

The Tortoise and the Hare

In this everyone-gets-a-trophy revision of the classic story, the tortoise gets right to the finish line, then must wait for the hare to catch up, so they cross the line at the same time. After all, we can’t have “winners” and “losers.”

The Ant and the Grasshopper

This story only has to have an epilogue added. The ants work hard all through the year and are prepared for the harsh winter. However, as that winter comes, they must take their harvest to a central location where some “lead bugs” divide up their hard-earned food and give some evenly to all the insects. It’s not fair that some have and some don’t, so we have to be sure that all have an equal amount.

Jack and Jill

Feminists cry out for a rewriting of this short poem, because it is obviously gender biased in that Jack always rolls down the hill first, and Jill comes “after.” So, a second version is written where Jill gets to be the lucky one to tumble down the hill first.

The Three Little Pigs

The story remains the same until after the wolf cannot blow down the brick house of the third pig. At this point, the wolf sues the pigs and wins punitive damages for harming his fragile self-image.

Old Mother Hubbard

This short tale becomes boring, but at least it’s “p.c.,” when the old woman opens her cupboard and finds…you guessed it…some of the grain from the ants who had it redistributed from another story.

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As the young puppet-turned-boy continues to grow up, he decides that his rights have been violated by Geppetto, so he starts a social media campaign to destroy the reputation of the older man. Despite spending his life savings on a firm to help represent him, Geppetto loses in the court of public opinion, and is never heard from again.

 

COMMENTS: What are some other fairy tales you can see being rewritten so they are more “politically correct?” Share yours in the comments!

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Gwyneth Paltrow, Chris Martin, and “Conscious Uncoupling”

On the online celebrity newsletter Goop, Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin recently announced that their marriage was ending. That might not be too surprising, considering how often we hear of weddings and separations among the celebrity world.conscious uncoupling

The way in which their split was announced, however, has raised some eyebrows. You see, they aren’t calling it a “divorce.” Instead, it is being called a “Conscious Uncoupling.”

On the Goop newsletter, Paltrow and Martin provided a short statement to fans about this “conscious uncoupling,” and provided fans with some words of thanks.

Following that, however, there was a rather lengthy essay by Drs. Habib Sadeghi and Sherry Sami about the concept of “conscious uncoupling.” To say it is quite different from anything I’ve ever seen is a grand understatement.

These two doctors, well known for their New Age concepts, state that what Paltrow and Martin have done is simply an outgrowth of (are you ready for it?) human evolution.

They state:

During the upper Paleolithic period of human history (roughly 50,000BC to 10,000BC) the average human life expectancy at birth was 33. By 1900, U.S. life expectancy was only 46 for men, and 48 for women. Today, it’s 76 and 81 respectively. During the 52,000 years between our Paleolithic ancestors and the dawn of the 20th Century, life expectancy rose just 15 years. In the last 114 years, it’s increased by 43 years for men, and 48 years for women.

Based upon that, they ask the question, “What does this have to do with divorce rates?”

Get ready for this answer:

For the vast majority of history, humans lived relatively short lives—and accordingly, they weren’t in relationships with the same person for 25 to 50 years. Modern society adheres to the concept that marriage should be lifelong; but when we’re living three lifetimes compared to early humans, perhaps we need to redefine the construct. Social research suggests that because we’re living so long, most people will have two or three significant long-term relationships in their lifetime.

That’s right: you and I simply have evolved to the point where we live too long to expect to stay married “til death do us part!”

Further in their essay, they speak to the idea that couples say they are going to remain together, “but then reality sets in.” It is that “reality”–things like children, unmet needs, etc.–that should cause us to not feel shame when we “uncouple” in a “conscious” manner. These two doctors actually state, “The idea of being married to one person for life is too much pressure for anyone.”

Too much pressure?

So, I guess the pressure of being married for a lifetime got to Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin, and it was just too much. Thankfully, they can find New Age/evolutionary “proof” that this separation is just part of human development, and they can simply uncouple.

When you remove God…

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Sources and Further Reading

“Conscious Uncoupling” (Goop.com)

“‘Conscious Uncoupling’ : Gwyneth Paltrow Explores Spiritual Side of Divorce on Goop” (New York Daily News)

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Dealing with Anorexia : Thoughts from One Who Prays

I will not use their names, but in the past few years, I have known two young ladies who have battled anorexia nervosa. This post is dedicated to those two girls, and is written by someone who wasn’t as close as he should have been, but who continues to pray for them as they battle. Please accept this post as trying to raise awareness and helping us all work together to do what we can to help those battling anorexia nervosa.

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We live in an image-obsessed society. The constant barrage of what is “perfect” is ever before our eyes. None of us measures up to the computer-enhanced, airbrushed, “perfect” image, no matter what we might try. And, no matter how much we know that what is portrayed as “perfect” really isn’t, we are barraged by that message on an almost constant basis.

For some, this search to conform to the “perfect” image leads down a very dangerous path. Eating disorders develop for many, including anorexia nervosa. Out of every 10 cases of anorexia nervosa (hereafter, simply called “anorexia”), nine will be female. While there are other similar disorders that people battle in this search for “perfection,” we are going to restrict our thoughts in this post to anorexia, since I have known these two young ladies.

Anorexia is a serious disorder, and though we don’t seem to hear about it as much as we did a few years ago, it is still very real. It is nearly impossible to get accurate statistics, since so many cases go unreported (or untreated), but between 1% and 4.2% of all American women will suffer from this disorder at some point in their lifetime. They will severely restrict what they eat, and then will often exercise in almost extreme ways. Some will then “binge” on things like diet pills, because they know their body needs something for energy. A few will “purge” what they do eat, severely restricting the levels of nutrition their bodies actually get. Early warning signs can include headaches and extreme mood swings, but there are other effects, as well.

What can be done to help? Again, speaking solely as an outsider, but one who has a heart that cares, let me offer 8 suggestions that will at least help us think about how we can help those, both in our families and out, to prevent or battle anorexia.

1. Stop Making Fun of People’s Weight. If our children constantly hear us talking about how heavy someone is, they will not want to have “that” image. Mom and dad, what we say about others (not just about our own kids) has a bearing on how our children look at themselves. Children usually want to please their parents, so why would they want to be overweight (even if it isn’t “over” weight) when mom and dad poke fun at those who are that way?

2. Emphasize the Whole Person. We have to battle against a society that speaks only to body image. It is up to us to build into our children the view that their body is important, but so is their mind, their soul, and their social grace. If we only talk about one without speaking to the importance of them all, we are not teaching the balance necessary to our kids.

3. Watch How (and How Often) You Talk about Your Own Weight. Moms, your daughter does not need to hear you use the word “fat” very often, especially when you are anything but obese! Dads, if your child hears you constantly harp on your physical condition (good or bad) with no reference to other parts of who you are, they could develop a serious obsession.

4. Start Young (or Now) with Good, Balanced Eating/Exercise Habits. Dieting is not wrong, nor is being in good shape. Teach your kids healthy eating, but also show them that it is okay to splurge on some junk food every once in a while. Make them go outside and play to get some exercise, but also let them know it’s okay to just hang out sometimes, too. Don’t obsess over eating healthy, but teach that these are wise choices overall. (Then, don’t feel bad for having a brownie for dessert.)

5. Restrict the Media Intake. The “perfect” look is all around our kids. Walk down a mall corridor or drive by some billboards and you’ll see it. We also know it is all over our TV programs, movies, and online sites. We must restrict how much of that message our children are getting through constant exposure to the “allure” of celebrity. And it doesn’t have to be immodest stuff. Just the constant feeding of “the look” into their minds can fuel a serious self-doubt.

6. Keep Communication Open. Communication should be obvious. Too often, though, parents may suspect something is wrong, but will not probe for fear of what they might find out (or because “my kid would never do that”). While there is no way these conversations will be easy, parents need to allow their children to talk about anything openly and to help in any way they can.

7. Get Help. Anorexia is not a battle that can be won alone. Those who battle do so valiantly, but they need help, both professionally and in general support. It may embarrass someone to admit they struggle, but the more help they get, the more likely they are to battle forward.

8. Pray, Generally and Specifically. Generally, pray for anyone who suffers or who is going the way that leads to these types of disorders. Even if you don’t know anyone with anorexia, pray for those who suffer silently and who are not getting the help they severely need. Obviously, if you know someone who is battling, take their name before God’s throne often. Think of them in your silent prayers and take their needs to the Lord.

Anorexia, along with other eating disorders, is life-altering. It can really hurt not only the one battling through, but those around him or her. But it is a battle over more than just food. It is a battle to teach that the whole person is what is important.

If you are suffering, you are important, and we are praying for you. If you are suffering in silence, please seek help.

COMMENTS: What are your suggestions for helping those who battle anorexia? Leave them in the comments below.

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Friday’s Family Friendly Finds {March 28, 2014 edition}

Welcome to our weekly post where we share some articles for you to read over the weekend that should encourage you and your family. We hope you enjoy this weekly feature, and will help us by sharing articles and posts you find encouraging, either privately or in the comments.

Family Friendly Finds

This Week’s Finds

Maybe We Should Stop Entertaining Our Kids So Much [We are THAT Family]

What You Really Need in Marriage [The Blazing Center]

Teaching Our Children to Judge [for the family]

Emotional Cues [Biblical Parenting]

Trend Alert: 6 Messaging Apps That Let Teens Share (Iffy) Secrets [Common Sense Media]

Our Week in Review

These posts were not necessarily written in the last week, but were the 5 most-viewed posts during that time. To emphasize that, we have started adding the original publication date for each post to this list.

#5: Slow Down, and Cherish the Moments [March 24]

#4: Dressing Our Daughter for Who We Want Her to Be [March 4, this post is very close to 2000 Facebook likes!]

#3: To My Son, On His 7th Birthday [March 26]

#2: The Hardest Part of Proverbs 22:6 : How Not to Live Through Your Child [March 27]

#1: “Before Your Kids’ Eyes : 6 Things Your Kids Need to See You Do Daily [March 18]

What Did We Miss?

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