Church Life,  Family

If Appearances are Not Important

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Have you ever noticed the difference between photos taken of a person when or before they are arrested and those taken when the same person has his or her day in court? Have you ever noticed that, in many instances, they almost do not look like the same person?

In many of the “pre” or “day of” photos, the person is unkempt and has an interesting (to say the least) hair style. Often the individual is seen proudly showing off all of the “art” and metal that they think makes them look cool, attractive, or something. He or she may be making sure that all of this is visible by exposing as much of the body as possible. Sometimes, a lot of skin is showing just to show off the skin.

However, when that same person appears in court, the metal is no longer there and the “art” and the “canvass” used for art has been covered up as much as possible. As he or she walks into court, it looks like the last stop before the entrance into the courtroom was at a barber shop or beauty shop.

Why? What accounts for the difference? If appearances are not important, why has there been such a drastic change?

Could it be that a lawyer has gotten the attention of his/her client? In more high profile cases, could it be that some sort of expert has been employed to prepare the defendant as well as possible for the trial?

I wonder if the message from the lawyer or advisor could be something like this:

“If I am going to represent you, you need to realize that you cannot walk into a courtroom in front of a judge and a jury looking like you normally look. You can argue all you want that your appearance should make no difference and that you have the right to look any way you want to look. You are exactly right about that. 

I admire the fact that you are willing to make what you think is a courageous stand based upon your principles and your rights. Many people would not make that kind of decision when they are facing incarceration – or worse.”

At the same time, I have some news for you. Unless you straighten up, clean up, and cover up, you will be sending a message you do not want to send. I will also tell you that, unless you do those things, you can find another lawyer. I will not represent somebody looking like you normally look.

Would you like for me to show up in court looking like you did before you were arrested?”

Those who know me should know that I’m not one of those old-fogey preachers who thinks that I have to wear a suit and tie when I mow the lawn or work in the garden. (Yes, I’ve heard of men who have done that.) 

At the same time, I realize that all Christians, whether they are preachers or not, represent at all times the One whose name we wear. Every choice I make should be based on that. 

What do others think of Jesus when they see and hear me? 

What do they think of Him when they see and hear you?


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